April 2, 2025

Happy Wednesday and happy April, my beautiful humans! 👽

You know what I always say: new week, new month, fresh start! As you know, I officially started my new job this week and I am back in an office (hybrid, but still). For those of you interested in a little life update, here you go! And if you’re just here for the quote - no hard feelings, scroll on down. 😉

So, what’s new? I’m now the HR Manager and the founding HR member at Clapper, a social media company. And let me tell you - I. Am. LOVING. It. It’s early-stage, which is exactly what I wanted. The creativity, the innovation, the energy - it’s all there. I get to build, connect, and lay the foundation for something amazing. There's a ton of work ahead, but 48 hours in, and I can already tell - the people here are exceptional. They’re passionate, driven, and genuinely excited about what they’re doing. And the best part? They seem thrilled to have HR… well some of them do! (Let’s see if that holds up once I start rolling out policies and initiatives. But for now, I’m basking in the moment 😏😜)

Maybe I'll do another update in 6 months and see if I'm still feeling this way. Ha!

Now, let’s get into this week’s quote:

“And what truly matters in life is connection—deep, genuine connection. The kind that feels safe. The kind that allows us to be ourselves. The kind that makes us realise that this is where the quiet magic of life breathes a little more deeply.” — Helen Marie ✨

Last Saturday, I spent the day with a friend I’ve known for nearly ten years, and every single time we hang out, we lose track of time. Then, I leave, and my heart feels so full, like my cup is overflowing in the best way possible. You know the kind of friend I’m talking about? The ones where you don’t waste time on surface-level small talk or meaningless gossip. Instead, you get right into the real stuff. The deep, soul-nourishing conversations about life, dreams, fears, and all the messy in-between.

And, okay, maybe a little randomness too. Like, why are the Zodiac plates at Neiman Marcus $380 each? And what exactly are you supposed to do with them? Eat on them? Display them? Are they just expensive conversation starters? We had more questions than answers.

That’s the thing about true connection though, it doesn’t have to be serious all the time. It’s about balance. The deep talks that make you feel seen, mixed in with the kind of laughter that makes your stomach hurt. It’s about knowing you don’t have to filter yourself, that you can bring every messy, unpolished, beautiful part of who you are to the table and be fully accepted.

But in a world where “connection” is just a follow, a like, or a comment away, it’s easy to forget what real connection actually feels like. Social media gives us the illusion of being plugged in, but how often do we feel genuinely understood? We scroll, we double-tap, we send memes back and forth, but are we really seeing each other? We’ve never been more “connected,” yet so many of us feel lonelier than ever. And I understand the irony, considering I just started working at a social media company, right? But even in a digital world, I believe in using these platforms to build true, meaningful relationships - not just perform them. For me, that means sharing my blog and quotes, creating spaces where people feel seen, understood, and inspired. Social media can be a positive tool too if we use it intentionally, but it’s also about setting boundaries and reminding ourselves that it’s only a small snippet of someone’s life. You NEVER truly know what’s happening behind the screen.

And let’s not forget about the most important connection of all: the one with ourselves. We spend so much time focused on relationships with others that we sometimes neglect the relationship we have with ourselves. Are we checking in? Are we giving ourselves the grace, patience, and kindness we offer our closest friends? Real connection starts within. If we’re not grounded in who we are, if we’re not comfortable in our own skin, how can we truly show up for others? We’ve talked about this before, and I’ll keep reminding you until it is burned into that pretty little mind of yours!

We live in a world that constantly pushes us toward productivity, hustle, and never-ending to-do lists, but let’s not forget that connection - that real, meaningful, genuine connection - is what makes life rich. It’s what grounds us when everything feels chaotic. It’s what reminds us that we’re not alone in the messiness of it all.

So, here’s my little reminder for you this month: Prioritize those connections. The ones that make your soul exhale. The ones that leave you feeling lighter, happier, and whole. Make space for the people who remind you of who you are, who lift you up, and who let you do the same for them. And don’t forget about yourself in the process. Check in. Reflect. Nurture that inner dialogue. Because at the end of the day, the strongest, most fulfilling connections start from within.

And hey, if you’ve been meaning to reach out to someone, consider this your sign. Send the text. Make the call. Plan the coffee date. And while you’re at it, carve out a little time for yourself too.

Until next time, keep collecting those soul-filling moments.

Trust your journey. Rest your souls, little saplings. Always leave people better than you found them, and have a heartwarming day and a soul refreshing weekend ahead! 👽🫶🏻🧿🌱