January 29, 2025

Hello my beautiful humans 🛸 Welcome to the 84th day of January! How many quotes have I written this month? 17 of them? Because that’s what it feels like. I mean, I don’t mind, I’m just saying… Let’s add another quote to the list, shall we?

“Right before you elevate to your next level, there’s always a moment where everything that no longer aligns starts to crumble. If things are falling apart, trust that it’s making space for more light to enter. Let it happen.” – Anonymous ✨

Last year tested me in ways I didn’t even know were possible. The later half of the year felt like I was standing in the middle of a sandcastle as the tide rolled in. Things I thought were solid plans, like my career, relationships, expectations… they proved me wrong and some just washed away all together, and for a while, all I could do was stand there like, “Umm… hello? Can I get a break?” “Bueller?” “Bueller?”

But here’s the thing about breakdowns: they often lead to breakthroughs. And let me tell you, this month? I’ve felt it. That shift. That moment when you realize the things that fell apart weren’t meant to come with you into this next phase. The weight that’s been lifted. The clarity that comes when you stop clinging to what’s slipping through your fingers and start opening your hands to what’s meant for you.

It’s not easy, though. Trusting the process when things feel like they’re unraveling? Yeah, not exactly a fun time. But growth rarely comes wrapped in comfort. It comes in those uncomfortable, uncertain, “what-the-fuck-is-happening” moments. It demands that we step outside of what feels safe and familiar, pushing us into situations that test our patience, resilience, and belief in ourselves. Discomfort is the space where transformation happens, where we shed old versions of ourselves, and make room for new perspectives, opportunities, and strength we didn’t even know we had. And when you finally step into that next level, you’ll look back and realize the crumbling wasn’t destruction - it was preparation for something bigger, something better.

So, if things feel like they’re falling apart right now, take a deep breath. Maybe, just maybe, they’re actually falling into place. Give it some time and let it happen. The next version of you is waiting.

Here’s to breakthroughs, to trusting the process, and to making space for the light to enter.

Trust your journey. Rest your soul. Always leave people better than you found them, and have a rad day and a beautiful weekend ahead! 👽🫶🏻🧿