April 17, 2024
Ah, Wednesday, the midweek oasis sandwiched between the hustle of Monday and the relief of Friday. Fear not, my weary friends, for amidst the chaos of the week, we've carved out a tranquil moment to ponder the long anticipated, weekly quote. So without further ado, let’s dive into it:
“Don’t regret being a good person with the wrong people. Your actions say everything about you, and their actions say everything about them.” Vex King ✨
First I’d like to start off by saying that the introductions to my weekly quotes just keep getting harder and I got a little too creative (maybe a little weird) with today’s intro. I also sent my team a slack message yesterday and I started the message with “Ahoy Scallywags”, so yeah, thanks for sticking around and being part of the madness that is my mind 😂
Back to your regular scheduled programming: This week’s quote is a much needed reminder of the murky waters of human connection. It reminds us that our worth is not determined by the company we keep, but by the integrity of our actions and the steadfastness of our character. How often have we found ourselves in situations where we've bared our souls to the wrong audience, only to walk away with a lingering sense of regret? Whether it's with family, friends, co-workers, or even strangers we've just met, we've all experienced that moment of introspection where we question our own judgment.
Yet, in these moments of self-doubt and reflection, it's important to remember that we are not defined by the fleeting opinions of others. Our value lies in the sincerity of our intentions and the authenticity of our actions. When we choose to be kind, compassionate, and true to ourselves, we are affirming our commitment to living a life guided by principles rather than pandering to the expectations of those around us. And when others fail to appreciate the goodness within us or act in ways that betray our trust, it is a reflection of their own character and values, not ours.
However, embracing this philosophy requires courage and self-awareness. It means we need to get comfortable with getting uncomfortable. It means having the humility to acknowledge our own shortcomings and the strength to set boundaries when necessary. It means recognizing that not everyone will appreciate or reciprocate our kindness, and that is okay. For true integrity lies not in seeking validation from others, but in staying true to our own moral compass.
So, the next time you find yourself questioning whether your goodness is misplaced in the company of the wrong people, remember this: Your actions speak volumes about who you are, and theirs about who they are. Embrace the journey of self-discovery with open arms and unwavering conviction, knowing that your worth is not determined by the opinions of others, but by the goodness that resides within your heart.
I’ve said this before, but we are the architects of our own destiny. We have the power to choose who we surround ourselves with and the kind of person we aspire to be. By embodying the principles of goodness, kindness, and authenticity, we not only elevate ourselves but also inspire others to do the same. Never forget that your value isn't dictated by external judgments, but by the kindness and integrity that dwell deep within your soul.
Trust your journey. Rest your soul. Always leave people better than you found them and have a remarkable day and a fantastic weekend ahead! 👽🫶🏻🧿